Nov 4, 2022
One of the most extraordinary stories of rape and interpersonal violence survival that I've heard in my career came from a chance encounter with a YouTube video. Court Carmody posted a poignant, yet brave, video several years ago, that I just happened to run across while doing some podcast research. Back when she posted the video, she was an active YouTuber and influencer who felt a sense of responsibility to her followers to tell her story of rape, and the subsequent questions of responsibility and shame that the rape evoked. But she also encouraged others who might see the video, and may have been through a similar abusive relationship to seek help, and not stay quiet about it. I was simultaneously intrigued and impressed by Court and her story, so I reached out to her to see if she would be willing to tell her story, and more, again for my podcast audience...she responded almost immediately with an emphatic "YES!" And it turns out that Court had been raped twice, both times by someone that she, initially, believed loved her, but who turned out to be people who saw her as nothing other than a "thing."
Court's bravery and willingness to tell her story, in gripping, and sometimes harrowing detail, is also a story of victory and triumph...she's now in a loving and caring relationship, married to a man who is constantly there for her with empowering support. Today Court is on a path toward a doctorate degree, and during the interview, made a stunning and happy discovery of survival and growth.
This story is also one of insight and instruction for law enforcement and criminal justice professionals on several levels. Make sure you share this episode with LOTS of people...including police, prosecutors, victim advocates, parents, friends, and colleagues....everyone needs to hear Court's powerful story!